You did nothing wrong, so you don’t owe anyone an apology for
men creepy boy-like weirdos. They owe the world an apology for themselves. But you existing and not being one (thus far that I’ve noticed) is apology enough. Actually apologizing doesn’t do much besides make people question your sincerity. So it’s best to just let them learn themselves that they’re not ALL lunatics. :]
I can’t believe I just saw this message.
Thanks lovie, you’re a doll. And I agree, it’s terrifying how many people think it’s perfectly acceptable to flip their shit over someone they don’t even know not being interested. You don’t even know them, they shouldn’t have that much power over your view of yourself!
If she’s never responded to any of your messages I’d say no. Leave her alone, she’s obviously not interested. If she was she would have messaged back, and if she comes around or whatever, she needs to do so on her own terms.
You can go rate her profile highly if you want to and play it off as a “oh you showed up in quickmatch” if she gets weirded out and says something.. But that’s still a bit weird and I’m going to advise you not to lie to ladies you’re interested in.. Or anyone in general in hopes of knowing them.
Honestly, you need to just let it go unless you wish to come off as overly persistent (ie. obsessive) and creepy. Maybe she’ll look back into old messages or happen upon your profile on accident some time and end up talking to you. Things happen. But don’t try to make them happen by multiple messaging a girl who hasn’t once responded to you. She’s not interested. It may just be for right now. She may have shit going on. She may never be interested.. But you don’t know her, therefore it isn’t your business her reasoning. It’s hers. If she messages you or takes a look at your profile later, then feel free to look at her profile as well or message her back. If she doesn’t: It’s best to leave her be.
Sorry! SOOOO SOOO SORRY GUYS. I had turned off submissions because some douche-nozzle had been harassing me anonymously so I turned off submissions and anonymous messages and completely forgot. Submissions will be back up in like two seconds!
Hey! Im not sure if the mobile app lets you submit or not, so if you’re doing it from your phone I can’t really help.. But there’s a link in the side bar or you can just go to wtfokcreepy.tumblr.com/submit from your computer or your phone’s internet browser. :]
So.. what does he want you to do? Meet up with him so you can sniff him before making your final decision? I’m beyond words right now.
Thank you for submitting this.. But dude..
ALEJANDRO, YOU NEED TO STOP BEING SO PICKY. THESE ARE JUST RIDICULOUS STANDARDS WOMEN JUST COULDN’T POSSIBLY MEET. Christ. No wonder you’re single. <3 <3 <3 Love you, bitch.
Desperation does strange things to your brain, I guess.
I’M NOT A FUCKING TOUR GUIDE.
There are tens of thousands of websites for you to look at to discover things to do in whatever area you’re in. There are Yelp reviews you can read to see if it sounds like your idea of a good time. Don’t fucking ask me, a random person who knows nothing about you, what I think would be fun for you. I don’t know you. I don’t know what you like. And I think you’re weird so I really don’t want you frequenting my local hangouts.
PLEASE EVERYONE, STOP ASKING THIS QUESTION. Unless you’re going to pay me to show you around the city, fuck off with asking me what there is to do. It’s a big city. Explore. There’s your good time.