Not always. Yeah, most of the time the people are shitty, talking to other people, or lying about themselves. But not always. I’ve met a lot of amazing people. I had a great relationship come out of OkCupid. It takes a while to find them but there are some really great people. It isn’t for everyone. If you’re too put off by the way things are, then don’t do it. But there are genuine people, you just have to find them.
Bahahah. I love you. <3
And YOU missed the sarcasm…
Alejandro, hun. You knew I wasn’t attacking you, right?! Bahaha. Because apparently not everyone gets that I wasn’t directing any of that shit at you.. You’re not a creepy asshole.
Yeah, I’m just done.. Oh you’re so fucking butthurt because every woman doesn’t immediately drop everything to be with your ass.. Obviously it’s because women are fucked up in the head. It couldn’t possibly be because we’re PEOPLE with interests and feelings. How dare we have any opinion about who we date? We’re OUT OF FUCKING CONTROL over here thinking we should get to CHOOSE who we involve ourselves with.
Oh hun, you don’t need to make any sort of argument.. His demons are with himself. No one can help what he’s got.
You’re not offending shit, because in order to offend someone, you’d need to be right about something first.
Oh, and before you try acting like your opinion matters, perhaps you should come off anon.. Because honestly, anyone who is too much of a baby to put their username on their message, obviously doesn’t have any real point to make.
You have a problem with women having standards and knowing what they want? Good luck finding someone who cares.
Yeah, there are some women who go for assholes. Who cares? Let them! They can go after whoever they want. Maybe I’m only interested in guys who look like Steve Buscemi? I don’t understand why this is still a discussion.
You can ask anyone who has met my ex boyfriends.. None of them are the tall, dark, and handsome type. Yeah, they’re taller than me.. One of them was overweight and kinda goofy looking now that I think about it.. Another had fucked up teeth. Another’s hair was thinning. But you know what? I didn’t notice those things when I was dating them. So you really need to stop being a loser and thinking that your problems stem from women wanting conventionally attractive men.. Because I’ve never dated a guy who had movie star good looks.. Did I think they were sexy? Oh hell yes I did. Just because you aren’t Channing Tatum doesn’t mean no one finds you attractive. Someone does. But you’re looking past her because you’re too busy going around hating women.
You want to be a cunt about women not being into your “nice guy” bullshit, then stop being a typical “nice guy”. And for the love of fuck„ THROW AWAY YOUR NASTY ASS FEDORA.
THIS IS WHY YOU’RE SINGLE. It’s not because “women are bitches” who “are only interested in hot, tall, asshole types.” That’s not the problem here. It’s that YOU. ARE. AN. ASSHOLE. And they DON’T want to deal with YOUR whiny bullshit.
You can ask my best friend. He used to have a huge crush on me. When we were really close, he treated me incredibly well. He was always super sweet to me. Did I reciprocate those feelings? No. Why? Because I didn’t have those feelings for him. I didn’t want to have sex with him. And that’s a big tell. I’m sorry but if I can’t see myself ever having sex with you, then no, we’re not gonna work.. Did he go along getting all butthurt because I chose my boyfriend over him? No. Did he try playing the “friendzone card”? No. Because he fucking understands that women have every right to be interested in whoever they want. As you have every right to be interested in whoever you want. I’m sorry that you’re having trouble finding a woman, but that isn’t because they’re bitches or cunts.. It’s because you’re an asshole.
Maybe the reason they aren’t into you isn’t a problem with them. Maybe it’s a problem with you? Like the fact that they don’t really want to be with someone who constantly whines about how no one loves them?
I don’t know. Just a thought, cause I know from that message that I can’t think of a single woman who would be willing to look past the general disrespect you have for women as a whole.
You want a relationship? Stop being a whiny asshole. It’s beyond unattractive.
Oh, he was interested. He’s butthurt that you have the balls to say something and he doesn’t. Your message was not “overly aggressive,” it was you being sick of him not having the balls to message you. Don’t even worry about him, hun. If he can’t handle an aggressive woman then he’s just not man enough for you. :]
I think part of the reason women on dating sites have such high standards is the same was why so many men on dating sites have such high standards.. There’s SO MANY PEOPLE. Or, there’s the illusion of so many people. If someone does something or say something small that upsets you or is weird or turns you off in any way whatsoever.. You can just move on to someone else.. Rather quickly. You don’t have to really get to know someone before getting to know if you’re interested or not. I’m not even sure people are necessarily more “picky”.. Maybe they’re just able to realize faster what they are and are not looking for..
Not every woman wants the same thing. Perhaps its the type of women you’re going for who are interested in those types of guys.. Did you ever think that maybe the reason you’re having that sort of luck is because you’re after the wrong type of woman?
You also don’t choose who you fall in love with. Single mothers don’t become single mothers because they chose to fall in love with a jerk. They fell in love with a jerk who got them pregnant. It’s entirely different. And you really need to not blame women for who they fall in love with. How about.. It’s the guys fault for being an asshole and treating her badly and also being stupid and not taking the necessary precautions in order to prevent pregnancy? It’s just as much his fault that she’s pregnant as it is hers. Birth control can fail and so can condoms, so if they’re super concerned about not being parents, maybe they should cover their bases and use both?
And these guys aren’t always jerks. You are aware that people can change right? I dated a guy for three years before he turned into an emotionally abusive cheating asshole. THREE YEARS. And I went through another two horrible years being treated like shit. Now is when you blame me for falling in love with an asshole. Because it’s my fault I fell in love with him, right? It was my fault that I got treated like shit and felt trapped after three years of him treating me like a princess. Because I chose it.
And the guy I dated after him? He also treated me amazingly well. He made me forget what I ever saw in the guy before him. He made me realize how it feels to be loved. He never turned into a controlling abusive jerk. And I met him on OkC.
SO PLEASE CONTINUE TELLING ME HOW WOMEN ARE ONLY INTERESTED IN ASSHOLES. Because I can fully tell you that they’re not. Some are. And guess what? That’s okay, because that’s their type. It’s really not for you to judge who people are interested in because it literally does not effect you in any way.
I’m sorry if you think you’re having trouble because women like assholes.. But really, they can like whoever they want. And so can you.. But if you’re finding that all of the women you’re contacting seem to be interested in some douche instead of you (Which I’m really not sure how you’d know that…) then maybe you should try dating different women. Date an artist. Date an attorney. Date someone who doesn’t eat meat. Date someone blonde. Date a redhead. Date someone vastly more intelligent than you. Date someone who doesn’t give a fuck about you. Date someone who does. Date someone with the IQ of a foam peanut. Date a feminist. Date someone who has traveled the world. Date someone who loves animals. Date someone allergic to pets. You’re never going to find someone if you keep going for the women who choose assholes over you.. And really, the fact that you haven’t already figured that out is kind of pathetic.
Don’t come complaining to me about women not wanting you. They aren’t obligated to want you. And it isn’t that their standards are ridiculously high. It’s that YOU’RE NOT THEIR TYPE. So they’re looking for someone who is.. If that happen to be an asshole who treats them badly.. Oh well. That’s their problem, not yours.
And that doesn’t just go for women. Men are just as particular and sometimes seem to go after the super promiscuous break-your-heart type as well. If that’s who they want, then that’s fine. They can be interested in whoever they want. The sooner you realize that, the sooner you’ll find someone who actually is interested in you.